Its been a while…
Written on April 24, 2008 – 4:46 pm | by ruzell-masiglat
According to the growth and development theory of seigmund freud at my age 25 going 26 i am at isolation versus intimacy. Intimacy meaning you have a fruitful girl and boy relationship and isolation is vice versa no partner/boy/girlfriend/fiancee/beau.
At this stage we are most likely prepared for serious/lifetime commitment. Unfortunately in my case i fall at isolation which is not that bad at all because of freedom, space ang time for myself no need to worry for something or someone.
But i do wonder why i am still alone. I will be hypocrite if i said i dont care because i care at this moment i am, or maybe not only at this moment i just dont want to think about it.
I dont know, i am a college graduate and career wise stable i dont consider myself beautiful but definitely not ugly too. But still boys or men dont see me. I was once seen by a guy but it didnt last, there was one time someone noticed me but he has too much priorities for me to fit in. I like someone but he was too preoccupied by other woman’s presence. And that someone for me still cant see where i am, because i went for out of the country right now. Until when will i be at isolation state? I dont know..
Freedom is something everyone wants to have at some point in time but then we cant remain free always because to be with someone is much better than freedom itself..
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